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Dear Mr. Morgenthaler,
Sun City, AZ
Praise for Durham, NC
Oxnard, CA The big “O”—are you orgasmically challenged?
Sex without orgasm can be perfectly pleasurable, but making love is even more deeply satisfying than simply having sex. Just make sure you and your partner communicate about what feels good and what’s off limits. And realize that sex doesn’t always have to be goal oriented. You don’t always have to have an orgasm. But we’re here to help you in that department. Whether you’d like more intense orgasms, have a hard time getting an orgasm, or have never had one in your life, we’ve got an arsenal of nutritional supplements to help you on your way! Only 30 percent of women can climax through intercourse alone; most also need direct clitoral stimulation, as evidenced by the fact that it takes women an average of 4 to 6 minutes to climax when they masturbate and 10 to 20 minutes during intercourse. Orgasm! His and Hers Most people don’t even know this, but a man is capable of two types of orgasm. There’s the usual one where a pounding heart is accompanied by deep breathing, tense muscles and the final release. Sadly, most men don’t ever get to experience the second type, the full-body O, also known as global orgasm. This ecstatic big bang builds up gradually starting in the penis, and cascades in waves to the limbs, torso and throughout the entire body. According to sex therapist Ian Kerner, PhD, author of She Comes First (Harper Collins, 2004) and He Comes Next (Harper Collins, 2006), when a man experiences global orgasm “his physical and mental tensions burst. It’ll almost feel like a dam breaking, unleashing a flood of pleasure within his body.” On the other hand, Beverly Whipple—Professor Emerita of the College of nursing at Rutgers University, New Jersey, and co-author of The Science of Orgasm (The Johns Hopkins University Press, 2006)—says that women most often orgasm from clitoral stimulation, with contractions starting in the pelvis. The vagina balloons out and the uterus pulls up. In an orgasm from stimulation of the G Spot the vagina opens up, the uterus pushes down into the vagina and it’s like a bearing down sensation. So physiologically the orgasm is different. Orgasms may not always be the goal of sex, but they do indeed make it more pleasurable and if you are orgasmically challenged, the best thing to do is relax, take your time and communicate with your partner about what feels good. Advertisement Arginine Caps
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Natural Ways to Improve Your Love Life—and Long Term HealthIt’s been said that you can’t be too thin, too rich or have too much sex. Good health and good sex go hand in hand. If you’re in perfect health, you’re bound to have a good sex life … and if you already have a great sex life, consider yourself lucky. Because, unfortunately, a large percentage of Americans are unsatisfied in bed, which is evident by the millions of men—young and old—who take pharmaceutical drugs for erectile dysfunction. Statistically things are even worse for women. The National Health and Social Life survey found that 43% of US women experience sexual dysfunction versus 31% of males. The results indicate that sexual dysfunction is an important public health concern, with links to diabetes, obesity, smoking, and emotional problems.1 Sex is important to your well-beingSex may be prevalent in advertising and in the movies, but sexual dysfunction is a growing concern in America today. In fact, experts say it is reaching epidemic proportions—in both men and women. But sex is important to your overall health, and sex therapists say that talking to your partner about orgasm and what feels good—or not so good—is an essential part of a healthy sex life. Most people, however, would rather brush their sex problems under the bed covers. This leads to other problems, ranging from relationship issues to possible health problems. Because sexual health and your overall health are intimately linked, and if you choose to ignore a sexual problem it will inevitably affect your quality of life. When is the last time you had a really fabulous time in bed?Remember how great you felt the next day? There’s a physiological explanation for that feeling of elation.
Ready to rev up your sex life?The good news is there are a number of prosexual herbs and nutrients that can help you get in the mood … and rev up your sex life. It’s true; you can enjoy increased desire and sensation, stronger orgasms, and increased stamina with natural prosexual nutrients. But first, we need to understand where the human sex drive comes from. For that, we need to understand the role testosterone plays in both male and female sexuality. Testosterone—the hormone of desireIf libido is the engine of sexuality, then testosterone is the fuel that keeps it running, says Jonathan V. Wright, M.D. co-author of Maximize your Vitality and Potency. Testosterone is the most important hormone for healthy, satisfying sex, in both men and women. The only difference is that women naturally have much lower levels of testosterone than men, and after menopause women generally have very low levels, which explains the dramatic drop in sex drive that often occurs. But whether you are a man or a woman, studies indicate that as we age there is a natural decline in testosterone levels. And even though it’s natural, it’s not a good thing, because low testosterone levels are linked to:
Without testosterone women have no sex drive at allJust as men’s bodies manufacture small amounts of estrogen, women’s bodies produce testosterone through the ovaries and adrenal glands. Testosterone boosts both libido and energy, maintains muscle mass, strengthens bone, and in women it ensures sensitivity to sexual pleasure. As women age, their bodies produce less testosterone. By age 40, women produce about half the testosterone as in their twenties. With the onset of menopause or after surgical removal of the ovaries, these levels drop even more. Studies have shown that the diminished energy, decreased sexual desire, and flat mood that some women experience during and after menopause are directly related to diminishing levels of testosterone. Boosting testosterone levels has been shown to increase sexual arousal in women. In one study, the researchers reported that after sublingual intake of testosterone, the women who were treated experienced a significant increase in genital arousal, genital sensations, and sexual desire.4 But finding the proper testosterone dosage is a bit tricky for women. If you take too much you can grow facial hair and start to exhibit other male characteristics. Your best bet is to test your free testosterone levels with a saliva test and to take a prosexual nutrient that naturally helps your body replenish diminishing levels. Note: www.aeron.com provides quality saliva testing for hormones.
Testosterone levels decline in men … and so does sex driveIn men, about 95% of testosterone is produced in the testes by Leydig cells (also called interstitial cells). The rest is produced in the adrenal glands. In most men, testosterone levels remain normal until about age 50 or 60, at which point they start to decline. The biochemistry is a bit complicated, but for simplicity’s sake, what we can tell you for certain is that this decline results in a decrease in libido and sexual function. Added to the typical age-related drop in testosterone, a new study shows a mysterious drop in the average blood levels of testosterone in 1,500 middle-aged Boston men over the last 20 years. In 1988, men who were 50 years old had higher serum testosterone concentrations than did comparable 50-year-old men in 1996, said Thomas Travison, one of the researchers at the New England Research Institutes in Watertown, Massachusetts. “This suggests that some factor other than age may be contributing to the observed declines in testosterone over time,” he adds. Obesity and smoking don’t appear to explain the results, the study shows. The reasons for that decline aren’t clear, but the participants’ average testosterone levels remained in the normal range.5 Clearly, testosterone is important for both female and male sexual health. Below are some natural herbs and nutrients that promote healthy testosterone levels. These prosexual herbs and nutrients can raise testosterone levelsTribulus terrestris—for healthier sperm and increased libido
Tribulus terrestris is an herb that has been used in Traditional Chinese Medicine and Ayurvedic medicine for thousands of years to treat infertility, erectile dysfunction, and low libido. In the past decade it has also become popular as a sports performance enhancer. Although there haven’t been any well-designed human studies yet, animal studies have found that tribulus heightens sexual behavior in laboratory animals by increasing testosterone levels. A recent study found that animals that were given tribulus had a significant increase in testosterone levels when compared to the control group.10 Another study found that animals given tribulus had an increase in blood flow into the corpus cavernosa of the penis, which was most likely from the result of an increase in testosterone and the release of nitric oxide (NO). NO is an essential component of blood circulation, which is vital to normal sexual function in men and women.11 Tribulus also provides menopausal relief in womenIn an open study, 98% of 50 menopausal women experienced some symptom relief of hot flashes, sweating, insomnia, and depression after treatment with tribulus. 52% of patients were experiencing natural menopause and 48% had postoperative symptoms after removal of their ovaries.12 Although tribulus is safe for men and women, pregnant and nursing women should not use it. Eurycoma longifolia—for natural libido enhancementEurycoma longifolia has been used for centuries in Malaysia and Indonesia as a safe and effective libido enhancer for men and women. In modern day Southeast Asia, eurycoma is a popular additive to soft drinks, coffee, and tea as an overall health enhancer. There are a number of studies on animals showing that it increases sexual performance,13 ,14 and currently there is a study being conducted by the Malaysian government and Massachusetts Institute of Technology (MIT) to determine how eurycoma enhances the availability of testosterone. According to anecdotal evidence, 80 to 90% of people who try eurycoma notice a definite increase in their libido. Eurycoma is a safe and natural sex enhancer. There are no safety precautions because there have been no documented negative side effects. Improve your overall health and sex life with these prosexual nutrientsYohimbe extract—for heightened libido, increased tactile sensation, multiple orgasmsYohimbe increases sexual desire, sensation, and orgasms in both men and women, and helps men get harder erections and have greater stamina. Yohimbe is a natural herbal extract of Corynanthe bark from a tree found in western Africa. Yohimbine is the name for its active ingredient. Yohimbe has been used in African folk medicine for centuries to give warriors stamina and strength, and to treat fevers, leprosy, and coughs. Its most popular use, however, as been as an aphrodisiac. It’s been used for the past 75 years in Europe to treat erectile dysfunction, and the FDA approved yohimbine as a treatment for ED in the late 1980s. Yohimbine is an alpha-blocker. It works by inhibiting the alpha-2 adrenergic system, dilating blood vessels and increasing blood flow in the penis, which helps to improve erectile function. It is also reported to increase female libido. One significant discovery is that yohimbine has been used successfully to treat erectile dysfunction in men with diabetes.15 Yohimbe is also prescribed for weight loss by natural health practitioners at Bastyr University, who claim it is more effective and safer than the stimulant ephedra. Although studies on yohimbe are limited, it has a long history of efficacy and safety. In-depth, systematic studies in animals have shown that it has a remarkable positive effect on sexual performance. Meta-analyses of the few controlled, randomized human studies have consistently shown an advantage of yohimbine over placebo.16 Despite such a long history and encouraging activity, the herb has not yet been subjected to scientifically rigorous human clinical trials, most likely because it doesn’t have patent protection or commercial viability—meaning the pharmaceutical industry won’t make a lot of money off it.17 Yohimbine is not recommended for pregnant women, children, those with kidney problems or with histories of gastric or duodenal ulcer. Geriatric patients should consult with their physician before using yohimbine.
L-Arginine—greater staying power and intensity of sexual responseArginine is an amino acid that is one of the building blocks of protein in the body. It is available as a supplement known as L-Arginine. Arginine is a precursor to nitric oxide (NO), which is credited with being the major neurochemical responsible for causing penile erections. Since impaired formation and action of NO is one of the causes of erectile dysfunction, it makes sense that arginine supplementation has a positive effect on enhancing libido and producing more sensation and intensity in men and women.18 L-Arginine has also been shown to produce stronger, longer-lasting and more frequent erections. A recent double-blind, placebo controlled study of 50 men showed that after one month of taking a supplement of L-Arginine and pine bark extract erectile function was fully restored to normal.19 L-Arginine users say they can achieve a prosexual effect by taking it 45 minutes before sex. There are few reported side effects. The most notable are:
Choline—for increased sexual enduranceCholine is the important nutrient that fuels tissue renewal and helps build acetylcholine (ACh). It is so vital to thought and nerve function that without it we couldn’t move, think, sleep or remember anything. It’s important to note that sex arousal starts in the brain, not in your groin, and guess what—acetylcholine is the transmitter that carries the message from your brain to the spinal nerves to the penis and vagina saying that you are engaging in sex and could use a little help with sustaining arousal and achieving orgasm. Studies confirm a key role for cholinergic nerve transmission in sexual responses. Simply speaking, with too little acetylcholine sexual activity goes down. When acetylcholine levels go up, sexual activity goes up. Acetylcholine plays a major role in the physiological build-up to orgasm, as well as the intensity and duration of the vaginal and urethral contractions that occur during orgasm.20 The added benefit to taking a choline supplement is that increased levels of acetylcholine help elevate mood and improve mental alertness, memory and learning. This is the prosexual nutrient to help you get in the mood and have fantastic orgasms. EDTA (calcium disodium EDTA)—keep your heart pumping so you can have sexIt’s often heard that the best way to die—besides during sleep—is during a frisky romp in bed. And it’s not really that uncommon. During sex you get a pretty good work out, and there is a lot of heavy breathing and such. If your arteries are blocked you really could have a massive heart attack doing what you love best. That’s why it’s so important to make sure your cardiovascular system is in top-notch shape. One of the best ways to do that is to take a natural oral chelator that has been scientifically proven to remove toxic heavy metals from the blood stream. Additionally, nitric oxide—which is necessary for men to have a healthy erection and for women to have a healthy sexual response—is produced by endothelial cells that line your blood vessels. If the endothelial cells contain lead or other heavy metals, nitric oxide production is impaired, which could lead to sexual dysfunction. Taking a natural oral chelator is one of the best ways to ensure that your sex life remains healthy, as well as your cardiovascular system. Ginkgo biloba—for enhanced erections and improved mental sharpnessMany research studies have shown ginkgo biloba to be a major aid in improving blood flow through small blood vessels. In one study conducted in Germany, 60 men with erectile dysfunction were asked to take ginkgo biloba extract, 60 mg daily, for 12 to 18 months. The first signs of improvement were seen after six to eight weeks. After six months, 30 of the 60 men had regained erectile function.21 If your sex life has suffered as a result of taking an antidepressant drug, this is the prosexual nutrient you’ll want to try. Studies have shown that ginkgo is effective at treating sexual dysfunction when it is a side effect from taking antidepressants. In one study, ginkgo was 84% effective. A group of men and women received 120 mg of ginkgo twice a day for four weeks and experienced improvement in all four phases of the sexual response cycle: desire, excitement (erection and lubrication), orgasm, and resolution (afterglow). And the added bonus was that 91% of the women and 76% of the men became less depressed.22 But even if you haven’t taken an antidepressant drug, ginkgo might do wonders for your sex life because it is incredibly beneficial to healthy blood flow to all parts of your body, including the genitalia. Many studies also indicated that ginkgo biloba also significantly increases mental acuity and memory. And the added benefits are that it will help keep your brain and vascular system healthy.23 Siberian ginseng—for stamina and enduranceSiberian ginseng has been used for thousands of years to boost sexual performance. Studies show that it increases testosterone plasma levels. It has also been linked to the release of nitric oxide by endothelial cells, resulting in increased blood flow. The added bonus is that Siberian ginseng is also an amazing immune protector and improves physical endurance—which are both needed for a healthy sex life.24 Other studies support improved penile function, libido and sexual satisfaction.25 How soon will I notice a difference with a natural libido enhancer?It’s important to realize that first of all everyone is different. If you’ve suffered from erectile dysfunction for quite a while or have been under a lot of stress, it could take a few weeks to restore your sexual desire. If you’re a perimenopausal or menopausal woman, it could also take weeks to restore balanced hormones. Two things we know for sure are that these herbs rarely function like Viagra®. It’s unlikely that you will notice an immediate effect upon taking a dose. It could take a day or two or up to a few weeks to notice a strong difference. It is worth it to be patient. If you continue taking these supplements you will notice a difference! There is a definite cumulative effect that reflects a balancing of your hormones. So stick with it! Your lover will appreciate it … and so will you! How do I know which prosexual nutrient(s) is right for me?It’s basically a question of experimenting with what works best and makes you feel good. You may find that you obtain great success with one product that contains several prosexual nutrients in one supplement. Or you may find that ginkgo biloba and choline do the trick in sustaining a better erection or achieving a stronger orgasm. Whatever you use, rest assured that these herbs and nutrients are safe, natural ways to enhance the pleasure you and your partner receive from a healthy sexual relationship. ConclusionThere is an important relationship between overall health and sexual satisfaction that relies on a healthy lifestyle, including a whole-foods diet, stress management and quality sleep. Having a good sex life, in turn, produces “feel good” hormones, that make us happy. In fact, research has shown that sex is more important to happiness than money is. After analyzing data on the self-reported levels of sexual activity and happiness of 16,000 people, Dartmouth College economist David Blachflower and Andrew Oswald of the University of Warwick in England report that sex “enters so strongly (and) positively in happiness equations” that they estimate increasing intercourse from once a month to once a week is equivalent to the amount of happiness generated by getting an additional $50,000 in income for the average American.26 So, if you want to feel like a million bucks, get on the bandwagon of including prosexual nutrients in your health regimen. Enjoy revitalized self-esteem, better health, improved relationships and, of course, better sex! References
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